Recognizing our humanity of us all!
The Interrelationship Between Our Perceptions and Our Judgment
Even though I’ve been less active on social media these past few weeks, I’ve been paying close attention to the people around me… and have often been surprised by how quickly we can jump to conclusions (myself included).
What are our perceptions based on?
Often, our perceptions color our judgment and influence our actions toward a person or a situation, without us taking the time to verify those perceptions.
For example:
We may get the impression that some colleagues work less than others or are less efficient… but do we really take the time to ask them what they’re working on?
Perhaps they are handling cases we know nothing about?
Maybe they work from home later in the evening to make up for leaving early or arriving late that day?
Perhaps we didn't clearly explain what we expected of them?
Perhaps they don't feel comfortable asking questions because of the way we react when they do?
The importance of validating our perceptions
Sometimes, simply taking the time to call or visit the person involved to talk with them can give us a whole new perspective on the situation!
We are all human
A picture is worth a thousand words
With that in mind, I’d like to share a short video with you that, even today, moves me deeply and has opened my eyes to a fundamental truth: we are all human.
This isn't about excusing certain behaviors (which can be hurtful or inappropriate). But we can try to be more mindful of the reality that others are experiencing.
After all, we're all human. We all need love, compassion, and respect. Some of us received more of these things growing up, while others received less—and that has inevitably shaped who we are and how we act today.
Moment of reflection
And you—how did you feel when you watched this video? What stands out to you?
What could you change today in your interactions with others?
My curiosity to communicate and connect with others—to better understand their reality and their perception of things—allows me today to be more open-minded rather than judgmental.
Taking the time to listen to others
I am convinced that anything can be said, but that there is a way to say things—a way that is unique to each person and each situation.
By taking the time to listen to others, we can engage in genuine, deep, and authentic conversations.
After all, we're all doing the best we can, based on what we know at the time! So why not expand that knowledge, so we can do even better than yesterday?
Need support?
If you'd like to explore this topic further, coaching can be an excellent tool for exploration and co-creation, guiding you toward a more holistic view of life.
After all, we're all human!
Feel free to schedule an introductory appointment with me—the first session is free!
